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おやすみ＋ by itz

Tue, 21 May 2013 04:50:13 -0400

おやすみ＋ by itz

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Tue, 21 May 2013 04:49:31 -0400

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Tue, 21 May 2013 00:42:06 -0400

Why Do Men Keep Putting Me in the Girlfriend-Zone?

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:35:33 -0400

literaryreference:

You know how it is, right, ladies? You know a guy for a while. You hang out with him. You do fun things with him—play video games, watch movies, go hiking, go to concerts. You invite him to your parties. You listen to his problems. You do all this because you think he wants to be your friend.

But then, then comes the fateful moment where you find out that all this time, he’s only seen you as a potential girlfriend. And then if you turn him down, he may never speak to you again. This has happened to me time after time: I hit it off with a guy, and, for all that I’ve been burned in the past, I start to think that this one might actually care about me as a person. And then he asks me on a date.

I tell him how much I enjoy his company, how much I value his friendship. I tell him that I really want to be his friend and to continue hanging out with him and talking about our favorite books or exploring new restaurants or making fun of avant-garde theatre productions. But he rejects me. He doesn’t answer my calls or e-mails; if we’d been making plans to do something before this fateful incident, these plans mysteriously fail to materialize. (This is why I never did get around to seeing the Hunger Games movie. Not to name any names, but thanks a lot, Tom.) Later, when I run into him at social events, our conversations are awkward and lukewarm. This is because the moment we met, he put me in the girlfriend-zone, and now he can’t see me as friend material.

I must say that I find this really unfair. I mean, I’m a nice girl. I have a lot to offer as a friend, like not being a douchebag and stuff. But males just don’t want to be friends with nice girls like me. They can’t help it, I guess; it’s just how they’re wired, biologically. Evolution conditioned our male hominid ancestors to seek nice girls as mates and form friendship bonds only with the other dudes that they hunted mammoths with. It’s true—I know this because I studied hominids in my fifth-grade science class.

So what’s the answer? Should I take up mammoth-hunting in an attempt to appeal to the friendship centers of men’s primal lizardbrains? Should I keep making guy “friends” and then prevent them from making a move on me by subtly undermining their self-confidence? Should I just give up on those manipulative, game-playing, two-faced bastards once and for all? I don’t know. I mean, I’d really like to have a true friendship with a guy someday, but it’s so hard to trust and respect them when they never say what they mean—and you never know when you might be relegated to the girlfriend-zone.

I did the Pokemon fusion thing.

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:33:09 -0400

noxxigirl:

I got a couple of cool ones

Then I got a not so cool one.

Men still have trouble recognizing that a woman can be complex,...

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:33:04 -0400

Men still have trouble recognizing that a woman can be complex, can have ambition, good looks, sexuality, erudition, and common sense. A woman can have all those facets, and yet men, in literature and in drama, seem to need to simplify women, to polarize us as either the whore or the angel.

sherlock-has-got-the-blue-box: sherlockspeare: Yes Oooooooh...

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:32:49 -0400

sherlock-has-got-the-blue-box:

sherlockspeare:

Yes

Oooooooh yeah….

Hanlock AU - Sherlock/Hannibal Hannibal thinks he found someone...

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:32:36 -0400

Hanlock AU - Sherlock/Hannibal

Hannibal thinks he found someone who shares interest with him, but he is mistaken.

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Tue, 21 May 2013 00:32:29 -0400

logosles: Evangelion Q hospital AU

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:32:20 -0400

logosles:

Evangelion Q hospital AU

psychokandi: snug-ler: D̜̪͎̏ͭ́͜Ĭ̴͍̅͝D̴̬̯̎ͪ̿ͧ͋ͩ...

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:32:06 -0400

psychokandi:

snug-ler:

D̜̪͎̏ͭ́͜Ĭ̴͍̅͝D̴̬̯̎ͪ̿ͧ͋ͩ ̵̡̫̭͇̼͈̰̊ͧ̏ͬ̊̆̔ͅY̨̪̻̫̣̒̓͟O̗̞͚͕̞͋̈̏ͫ̒ͫ͠͞U̢̫̲͈̫̙̣̺ͣͨ̋̓̔́͞ ̭͖͚̗̎̉̿̀̚͡Ç̱͖̃̎ͣ̉̓U̸̢̦͎͎̝ͩ̑̆͌ͮͫ͛͗T̺̬̹͇̳̔ͮ̄̓ͭͧ͋ͯ̀ ̷̢̛̻͈̬̲̦̀̔̅ͣͥ̌̀Dͦͬ͏̨̖̩O͕͎̝̣̰̟ͥ͋ͩ͌ͣ̕͟W̭̳̦͓͓͇̝ͯͬ̌͢Ņ͖͕͕͎͖̠̗̃̒̂̔́ ̸̲̫̘̫̜̣͎̈ͣͧ̎̒ͭͣ͟Ţ̦̝͖̪͎̘͔͑̑̈͒̀ͫH̡͙̖͍͛̎̎̓ͧͩ̔Iͯ̌͂̾͌͂͏̷̜̬͎͕Ş̧̘͈̻̃ͭͫ͘ ̺̘̝̩̩ͯ́ͅT͙̱͓̖̪ͮͯͭ̔͑̚͜ͅR̦̬͍̫̬̺̜̖̳͗̈́ͮ͢͡Ĕ҉̤̟̞̱̠̜̭̯͘Ȅ̴̖̺̼͇̞͙̗̗ͩͨͩ̓̋̎?̵̜̫̜͇̩̪͓̙͎ͧͨ̈́̓͋

ohmygod @_@

kiwibutt: I’m scared of this

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:32:00 -0400

kiwibutt:

I’m scared of this

coyotestar: might do more after my hand stops hurting 6_9

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:31:55 -0400

coyotestar:

might do more after my hand stops hurting 6_9

ear-worm: urimoo: by 紫月りる best pokémon

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:31:47 -0400

ear-worm:

urimoo:
by 紫月りる
best pokémon

the-bunny-princess: Chanfing ♥

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:31:39 -0400

the-bunny-princess:

Chanfing ♥

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Tue, 21 May 2013 00:31:34 -0400

the dreadful, spindly, killerfish!!

and psychic-bug that'll sap your brain out through your ears. :)

ziusik: GOD I LOVE THIS FUCKING SHOW

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:18:08 -0400

ziusik:

GOD I LOVE THIS FUCKING SHOW

xombiedirge: TF2 Illustrations by Rob Laro

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:17:59 -0400

xombiedirge:

TF2 Illustrations by Rob Laro

yellowlightcity: artworks by Torocchi

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:16:51 -0400

yellowlightcity:

artworks by Torocchi

camillekaze: misssnewyork: lordofthejohnlock: sherlockspeare: ...

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:16:46 -0400

camillekaze:

misssnewyork:

lordofthejohnlock:

sherlockspeare:

Wrong movie, darling.

I didn’t get it at first, but then I saw it…

OMG WRONG BLOG BUT STILL RLLY HOT

THIS IS THE SEVENTH TIME I’VE SEEN THIS POST AND I JUST NOW REALIZED WHAT IS WRONG